Friday, October 11, 2013

The Choice is Yours. (This or That)

I have a problem.
That problem is not uncommon to most men, in fact- I suppose a better statement would be:

"I've finally realized one of my many problems, as a man."

And that, is the behavior that I like aggressive, strong women for sex- and passive women to raise my future children.
And that is something I'm really going to have to wrap my brain around because that condition has totally plagued me all my life. There's one type of woman I'm attracted to for fucking, and another type of woman for y'know... relationships.

It's one of three reasons why my last relation probably didn't work out.
And in all honesty it's more of the heterosexual male bullshit that most of us are used to by now, (jeez I've brought it up in three previous blogs- the whole Madonna/Whore thing) but once again- it's the inability to see both sexual and relationship potential in the same woman.

So...until you get over it, you kinda have to go through the torturous motions of having to harmonize these women because (and they do need to know) there's going to be more than one woman in your life. (At any given time there are at least three women in mine.) Because God forbid, there are sexually imaginative and aggressive women, who can make your dick hard, listen to your secrets and successfully raise your children.
(Man, that's easy to admit on a blog, huh?)
But I get it, I really do. I love America's sweetheart, Sandra Bullock like every other hot blooded male, and would attend every PTA meeting concerning our offspring, but I wanna commit 100 sins with Sofia Vergara.
I know my sex objects, and I know the ones I could possibly put on a pedestal and love.
Apparently, so does Twitter:


The problem with this shit, is it will really fuck with a man's ability to form strong relationships. Sure, she will fulfill all his desires at first, but maybe after they're married or she bears his children he know longer sees her as a sexual being, and refuses to tarnish that image. So after the pissing and bullshit posturing we end up with the usual result, both partners stepping out on the relationship, seeking what they cannot find at home.

The only true solution to this problem is to deal with it.
EVERY woman whether she appears primarily vanilla, or primarily a deviant, has the aspects of both Madonna and Whore in her personality. That's how they're built. The good girl you married still wants to have sex, and the slut you spend drunken nights with can nurture you if she so desires.
Get over your mommy issues and realize that you can put this same woman on that pedestal, and every now and then drag her ass off of it- fuck the shit out of her, and then without question put her back on it when you're done.

And that's really how relationships work. You want somebody that you admire and enjoy spending time with, as well as showing her off to your friends, cumming in her face and continuing on.

...spending time and admiring.
"My dreams were all my own, I accounted to them to nobody; they were my refuge when annoyed- my dearest pleasure when free." -Mary Shelley; 'Frankenstein' or 'The Modern Prometheus'